Insights Into Prayer

Ephesians 3:14-21

Pastor Darrin Wright:    November 25 and Dec. 2, 2007 

 

Introduction

            Following the parenthesis in verses 2-13, Paul gets back to his prayer he started in verse 1.  Paul turns from exposition to intercession.  His prison cell became a prayer cell.  This prayer is considered to be the most sublime, the most far-reaching, and the most majestic prayer found anywhere in Paul’s epistles, or possibly in the whole Bible.

This passage is the second of two prayers recorded in Ephesians, the first one being Ephesians 1:15-23.  In the first prayer, the emphasis is on enlightenment, but in this prayer, the emphasis is on enablement.  It is not so much a matter of knowing as it is of having.  It is all about you and me laying our hands on what God has for us and by faith making it a vital part of our daily lives.  We are to personalize all that we have in Christ.

This prayer not only reveals the requests of Paul for the Ephesians but also the desire and longing of God for all His people.

 

 

 

I.  The Principles Of Paul’s Prayer.  (vs.14-15)

A.    The Posture Of Prayer.  (vs.14a)

1.      “For this reason I bow my knees”

2.      for this reason – resumes Paul’s thoughts in verse 1; it refers to all that Paul has been writing; it was Paul’s desire that his readers would enter fully into their privileges in Christ.

3.      bow my knees – a kneeling position emphasized solemnity or unusual urgency; Paul’s prayer was full of intensity, urgency, and emotion.

4.      The ordinary Jewish attitude of prayer was standing with the hands outstretched and palms upward.  It showed a readiness to receive whatever God chose to give.

5.      The Bible nowhere commands any special posture for prayer.

6.      However, the Bible does teach that God should be approached with reverence and awe.

7.      “Kneeling” is a symbol of submission.  It is saying, “You are greater than I am”.  It is recognizing that we are in the presence of someone who is much higher in rank, dignity, and authority.

8.      Our physical position isn’t the most important.  God is much more concerned with the condition of our heart than the position of our knees.

9.      illustration:  Sam Walter Foss:

The proper way for a man to pray

Said Deacon Lemuel Keyes,

And the only proper attitude

Is down upon his knees.

 

No, I should say the way to pray,

Said Reverend Doctor Wise,

Is standing straight with outstretched arms

And rapt and upturned eyes.

 

Oh, no, no, no

Said Elder Slow,

Such posture is too proud.

A man should pray with eyes fast closed

And head contritely bowed.

 

It seems to me his hands should be

Austerely clasped in front

With both thumbs pointing toward the ground, said Reverend Doctor Blunt.

 

Last year I fell in Hidgekin’s well

Headfirst, said Cyrus Brown,

With both my heels a stickin up

And my head a-pointin down.

 

And I made a prayer right then and there,

The best prayer I ever said,

The prayingest prayer I ever prayed,

A-standin on my head.

 

B.    The Presence Of Prayer.  (vs.14b)

1.      “before the Father”

2.      Paul’s posture helped remind him of the awesome majesty and nobility of the One he knew he could address as Father.

3.      Prayer is a declaration of dependence, not independence.  It is our way of telling God that we are dependent on Him for whatever the situation may require.

4.      It is through prayer that we lay hold of God’s riches that enable us to behave like Christians and battle like Christians.

C.   The Picture Of Prayer.  (vs.15)

1.      whole family (NIV) – It is the whole family for whom Paul prays – Jew and Gentile, rich and poor, male and female, young and old, educated and uneducated; for it is in the family as a whole that God’s great purpose of making known His manifold wisdom is fulfilled.

2.      Paul is setting the example in his prayer that we should go beyond our own interests and concerns and pray for the family of God.

II.  The Petitions Of Paul’s Prayer.  (vs.16-19)

  • That – introduces each request
  • These requests are not isolated, individual prayers, they are progressive, they are like steps of a ladder each moving higher but being built on what has gone before.

A.    A Prayer For Inward Power.  (vs.16)

1.      to be strengthened with power through His Spirit – speaks of a strengthening that is effected by the impartation of divine power.

2.      inner man – reason, conscience, and will; it is the seat of intellectual and spiritual life.

3.      The presence of the Holy Spirit in the life is evidence of salvation; but the power of the Spirit is enablement for Christian living, and it is this power that Paul desires for the Ephesians.

4.      Spiritual power is not the mark of a special class of Christians, but is the mark of every Christian who submits to God’s Word and Spirit.

5.      The obedient, effective, and productive Christian must be spirit conscious, spirit filled, and spirit controlled.

6.      J.B. Phillips – “And whatever happens to us down here we cannot do without his power in the inward man.  The outward man is perishing by the hour, we are wasting away, but the inward man can be renewed on a daily basis.  And that only happens when we are a people controlled by the Lord who is the Spirit.  We have available to us the third person of the Godhead – the Holy Spirit – and he will reinforce us.”

7.      according – in proportion to His riches, not out of His riches.

8.      the riches of His glory – Paul had in mind the limitless resources of God, and he is asking that we would receive these benefits in accordance with god’s ability to give; Paul wants us to live lives that correspond to the spiritual wealth we have in Christ.

9.      Let’s learn from Paul that we can never strain the resources of God.  He does not give grudgingly nor in meager proportions, as if He were afraid He might exhaust His wealthy.  He gives according to the measure of His infinite fullness.

10.  John Newton: “ Thou art coming to a king, Large petitions with thee bring, For his grace and power are such, none can ever ask too much.”

B.    A Prayer For Inward Presence.  (vs.17a)

1.      “so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith”

2.      “to settle down and be at home, not to be just a casual resident”

3.      John MacArthur – “Paul’s teaching here does not relate to the fact of Christ’s presence in the hearts of believers but to the quality of his presence.”

4.      It is the difference in your being in a house and being at home in a house.

5.      Paul is praying for a deeper experience between Christ and His people.

6.      Through our ever maturing faith, we would let Christ more and more “be at home in us” – that we would more consistently put and keep Christ at the center of our lives, letting Him shape our attitudes and choices and form us into His likeness.

7.      Graham Scroggie – “Christ’s presence in us has its degrees and advances, its less and more, its outer and inner.  A life may be truly Christian and yet far from fully Christian.  It is this which distinguishes one Christian from another.  Some have made little room for Christ, some give Him more, and in some He has the whole house.  Or, viewed from another standpoint, in some Christ is just present, in others He is prominent, and in others again, He is preeminent.”

8.      It is Christ living His life through us.

C.   A Prayer For Inward Position.  (vs.17b)

1.      “and that you being rooted and grounded in love”

2.      Paul uses two contrasting spheres to illustrate the importance of a right start:  the world of the biologist and the world of the builder.

3.      rooted in love – a tree must get its roots down deep into the soil if it is to find nourishment and stability.  Our roots must go down deep, deep, deep into the depths of the love of God.

4.      If our Christian lives are not rooted in love, they will wither and fade.

5.      grounded in love – relates to the foundation of a building.

6.      God’s love is the foundation on which we must build our lives.

7.      Revelation 2:2-5(NASB) – “I know your deeds and your toil and perseverance, and that you cannot tolerate evil men, and you put to the test those who call themselves apostles, and they are not, and you found them to be false; and you have perseverance and have endured for My name’s sake, and have not grown weary.  But I have this against you, that you have left your first love.  Therefore remember from where you have fallen, and repent and do the deeds you did at first; or else I am coming to you and will remove your lampstand out of its place – unless you repent.”

8.      If we don’t go down deep, we cannot go up high.

D.    A Prayer For Inward Perception.  (vs.18-19a)

1.      be able – to be mighty; to be eminently able; to have full capacity.

2.      comprehend – apprehend; laying hold on something so as to make it one’s own.

3.      with all the saints – It is not a matter of private experience, but in fellowship with the family of God that we explore the measureless riches of Christ’s love.

4.      breadth – reminds us that God’s love reaches around the world; it is wide enough to embrace the world.

5.      length – the length of God’s love stretches back beyond our farthest thought and forward on and on forever.

6.      Charles Spurgeon – “It is so long that your old age can’t wear it out, so long your continual tribulation cannot exhaust it, your successive temptations shall not drain it dry; like eternity itself it know no bounds.”

7.      height- reminds us that His love lifts us up to the very throne of God itself where we may enter with boldness to find grace and help in time of need.

8.      depth – reminds us that God’s love extends from glory to the grave.

9.      illustration: Years ago sailors venturing into uncharted seas would let out a sounding line to locate the bottom.  “No bottom in this line”, the sailor might report to the bridge.  Another length of line might be added.  “Deeper than that sir”, the officer of the watch might report.  The sailors might even attach all the line they had on board to the sounding weight.  “Deeper than that” they might note in the log.

10.  William Barclay – “It is as if Paul invited us to look at the universe – to the limitless sky above, to the limitless horizons on every side, to the depth of the earth and of the seas beneath us and said, The love of Christ is as vast as that.”

11.  to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge – paradox; we know deeply, and yet all the while there are infinite stretches of love beyond our highest experiences.

12.  know – knowledge gained by experience; Christians with their minds lay hold of Christ’s love and in their personal experience with the Holy Spirit they come to have an enlarging experience of Christ’s love.

13.  illustration  In the nineteenth century, when Napoleon’s armies opened a prison that had been used by the Spanish Inquisition they found the remains of a prisoner who had been incarcerated for his faith.  The dungeon was underground.  The body had long sense decayed.  Only a chain fastened around an anklebone cried out his confinement.  But this prisoner, long since dead, had left a witness.  On the wall of his dismal cell this faithful soldier of Christ had scratched a rough cross with four words surrounding it in Spanish.  Above the cross was the Spanish word for “height”.  Below it was the word for “depth”.  To the left the word “width”.  To the right, the word “length”.  This prisoner testified to the surpassing greatness of the love of Christ, perceived even in suffering.

E.     A Prayer For Inward Provision.  (vs.19b)

1.      “that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God”

2.      No prayer can reach beyond this, for in this filling every other blessing is included.

3.      fullness of God – an expression standing for the sum total of all the energies, powers, and attributes of God; to make full, or fill to the full, speaks of total dominance; to be totally dominated by God, with nothing left of self or any part of our old nature; to be emptied of self; it is not to have much of God and little of self, but all of God and none of self.

4.      Paul is requesting that our whole being may be filled with God’s presence and power, so that there will be no room for more.

5.      Paul was praying that in our character, in our conduct, and in our conversation we might be like Jesus.

 

III.  The Power In Paul’s Prayer.  (vs.20-21)

A.    Paul’s Confidence.  (vs.20)

1.      Paul was confident that God could meet our every need.

2.      When the Holy Spirit has empowered us, and Christ has indwelt us, and his love has mastered us, and God has filled us with his own fullness then he can “do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think”.

Seven Stages Of Paul’s Confidence

1)      He is able to do or work for he is neither idle, nor active, nor dead.

2)      He is able to do what we ask for he hears and answers our prayer.

3)      He is able to do what we ask or think for he reads our thoughts like a book and sometimes we imagine things which we dare not and, therefore, do not ask.

4)      He is able to do all that we ask or think for he knows it all and can perform it all.

5)      He is able to do more than all that we ask or think for his expectations are much higher than ours.

6)      He is able to do immeasurably more than all that we ask or think for he does not give his grace by calculated measure.

7)      He is able to do very much more – far more abundantly than all that we ask or think for he is a God of superabundance.

3.      abundantly – doesn’t just mean to make minor improvements in our plans; God can take what we ask and enlarge it and give it the magnificence worthy of Himself.

4.      powerdunamis; dynamite; this power is not a luxury, it is a necessity.

B.    Paul’s Confession.  (vs.21)

1.      Westminister Catechism:  Man’s chief end is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever.

2.      Because the power comes from Him, the glory must go to Him.

3.      glory – God’s majesty and splendor.

4.      According to Paul, we are to glorify Him publicly, personally, and perpetually.

 

Conclusion

The Message:

“My response is to get down on my knees before the Father, this magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth.  I ask him to strengthen you by his spirit – not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength – that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in.  And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you’ll be able to take in with all Christians the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love.  Reach out and experience the breadth!  Test its length!  Plumb the depths!  Rise to the heights!  Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.  God can do anything, you know – far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams!  He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.  Glory to God in the church!  Glory to God in the Messiah, in Jesus!  Glory down all the generations!  Glory through all millennia!  Oh, yes!”